Anal Dildos

Anal dildos are exactly what they sound like – dildos specifically designed for anal play. But there’s more to them than meets the eye.

Unlike regular dildos, anal dildos are typically designed with some specific features that make them safe and comfortable for backdoor exploration. They’re often (but not always) smaller than traditional dildos and come with a flared base – this is super important because it prevents the toy from traveling too far inside. Trust me, you don’t want to explain that emergency room visit to anyone!

I remember the first time I was shopping for anal toys and was completely overwhelmed by all the options. There were realistic ones that looked like penises, sleek non-realistic ones in every color of the rainbow, and some that didn’t look like anything I’d ever seen before. It can be a lot to take in!

The world of anal dildos is vast and varied. Here’s a breakdown of some common types:

By Material

• Silicone: Soft, flexible, body-safe, and easy to clean
• Glass: Firm, great for temperature play, and allows for targeted pressure
• Stainless Steel: Heavy, firm, and excellent for pressure and temperature play
• Soft Plastic/TPE: Often inexpensive but porous (harder to clean thoroughly)

By Design

• Realistic: Shaped like penises, often with details like veins and testicles
• Non-realistic: Smooth, often curved designs without anatomical details
• Beaded: Features a series of beads or bumps for varied sensations
• Curved: Specifically designed to target the prostate or other sensitive areas
• Vibrating: Includes motors for added stimulation
• Suction cup: Has a base that sticks to flat surfaces for hands-free play
• Harness-compatible: Can be used with a harness for partner play

So why do people enjoy these toys? Well, there are plenty of reasons:

1. The anus has tons of nerve endings that can create intense pleasure when stimulated
2. They can create a unique “full” sensation that many find incredibly satisfying
3. For people with prostates, they can target and massage the P-spot
4. They’re great for solo play or with partners
5. They can be used for anal training if you’re working up to anal sex

Unlike butt plugs that are designed to stay in place, anal dildos are meant for in-and-out movement, similar to how you’d use a regular dildo. This motion can create different sensations than a stationary toy.

Choosing the right anal dildo depends on your experience level, preferences, and what you’re hoping to get out of it. Here’s a guide to help you decide:

For Beginners

If you’re new to anal play, start small! Look for:

• Smaller diameter (around 1 inch or less)
• Smooth texture
• Flexible material like silicone
• Tapered tip for easy insertion

I’d suggest something like a slim, non-realistic silicone dildo with a gentle curve. These are comfortable to insert and won’t overwhelm you with too much girth or texture.

For Intermediate Users

Ready to step things up? Consider:

• Medium sized dildos (1-1.5 inches in diameter)
• Some texture for added sensation
• Curved designs to explore P-spot or deeper stimulation
• Vibrating options if you enjoy that sensation

For Advanced Users

If you’ve been around the block a few times:

• Larger sizes for a fuller feeling
• More pronounced textures
• Firmer materials like glass or steel
• More specialized shapes for targeted stimulation

I can’t stress this enough – anal play requires some precautions to keep it safe and enjoyable. Here are my top safety tips:

Always Use Lube

Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t produce natural lubrication. Skipping lube isn’t just uncomfortable – it can lead to tears and injury. Use plenty of anal-specific lube, and reapply as needed.

For silicone toys, use water-based lube as silicone lube can degrade the material. For glass or metal toys, you can use any type of lube you prefer.

Start Slow

Even if you’re experienced, take your time. Start with gentle external stimulation before insertion, and never force anything. Listen to your body – if something hurts (beyond a slight stretching sensation), stop and reassess.

Clean Thoroughly

Hygiene is crucial for anal play. Clean your toys before and after use according to the manufacturer’s instructions. For most toys, warm water and mild soap work well, or you can use a specialized toy cleaner.

If you plan to switch between anal and vaginal use, either use a condom on the toy or clean it thoroughly between uses to prevent bacterial transfer.

Only Use Toys With Flared Bases

I mentioned this earlier, but it bears repeating: only use toys with flared bases for anal play. The anal sphincter is strong and can pull objects inside, and there’s no natural stopping point like in the vagina. A flared base ensures you can always retrieve your toy safely.

Let me break down some common types to help you decide what might work for you:

Now for the fun part! Here’s how to use your anal dildo for maximum pleasure:

1. Prepare: Clean your toy and have plenty of lube ready. Some people like to clean their anal area first, either with a shower or specialized products.

2. Warm up: Don’t go straight for insertion. Start with external massage around the anal opening to relax the muscles.

3. Lube generously: Apply lube to both your toy and your anal area.

4. Start small: Begin with just the tip, and slowly work your way in as your body relaxes.

5. Listen to your body: Move at your own pace. There’s no rush!

6. Experiment with angles: Try different positions and angles to find what feels best. For prostate owners, a slight upward curve toward the belly button can work wonders.

7. Combine with other play: Many people find that combining anal stimulation with other types of pleasure (like genital stimulation) creates more intense sensations.

8. Clean up: When you’re done, clean your toy according to the manufacturer’s instructions.

Can I use an anal dildo for vaginal penetration?

Yes, but never go directly from anal to vaginal use without thoroughly cleaning the toy first. Bacteria from the anus can cause infections if transferred to the vagina. Some people dedicate specific toys to anal play only to avoid cross-contamination.

How do I clean my anal dildo?

The cleaning method depends on the material:

• Silicone, glass, and metal: Warm water and mild soap, or toy cleaner
• Electronic toys: Follow manufacturer’s instructions (usually wipe-clean only)
• Porous materials: These are harder to clean completely, so consider using condoms

For detailed cleaning, some silicone toys can be boiled or put in the dishwasher (top rack, no soap), and glass and metal can often be boiled or sanitized.

How big should my first anal dildo be?

For beginners, start small – around 1 inch in diameter or less. Focus on length later; it’s the width that requires the most adjustment at first.

Are anal dildos just for gay men?

Absolutely not! People of all genders and sexual orientations can enjoy anal play. The anus has sensitive nerve endings regardless of your gender or sexuality. For people with prostates, there’s the added benefit of prostate stimulation, but everyone can enjoy the sensations of anal play.

Do anal dildos hurt?

When used properly with plenty of lube and patience, anal dildos shouldn’t hurt. You might feel a stretching sensation, but sharp pain is a sign to stop and reassess. Start smaller, use more lube, or try a different angle.

Want to take your anal play to the next level? Here are some tips:

1. Try temperature play: Glass and metal toys can be warmed or cooled for different sensations. Just place them in warm or cool water (never extreme temperatures) before use.

2. Explore double penetration: If you have a vagina, try combining anal and vaginal stimulation for intense sensations.

3. Add vibration: Even if your dildo doesn’t vibrate, you can use a separate vibrator externally for added pleasure.

4. Incorporate into partnered sex: Anal dildos can be a great addition to partnered activities, either as preparation for anal sex or as part of the main event.

5. Consider a harness: If you’re playing with a partner, a harness-compatible anal dildo can be used for strap-on play.

When it comes to anal toys, quality matters for both safety and pleasure. EXSHA offers a range of high-quality anal dildos designed with your safety and pleasure in mind. Their products are made from body-safe materials and designed specifically for comfortable anal exploration.