Anal Toys

Anal toys are specially designed sex toys meant for anal stimulation and pleasure. Unlike regular sex toys, anal toys always feature a flared base or retrieval cord to prevent them from getting lost inside the body – an essential safety feature given the anatomy of the rectum.

These toys come in various shapes, sizes, materials, and designs to accommodate different experience levels and desires. From small, beginner-friendly plugs to vibrating prostate massagers and everything in between, there’s an anal toy for every preference and experience level.

The world of anal toys is diverse, offering something for every experience level and preference. Here’s a breakdown of the main types:

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are perhaps the most recognizable anal toys. They feature a tapered tip for easy insertion, a wider middle section for pleasurable fullness, and a flared base to prevent the toy from going too far in. They come in various sizes, materials, and some even vibrate or have decorative elements like jewels or tails.

Anal Beads

These toys consist of a series of connected spheres that provide unique sensations when inserted and removed. Beginners often appreciate that beads typically start small and gradually increase in size, allowing for a gentle introduction to anal play.

Prostate Massagers

Specifically designed for prostate stimulation, these curved toys target the P-spot (located about 2-3 inches inside the rectum toward the belly button). Many feature vibration settings for enhanced pleasure.

Anal Dildos

Similar to vaginal dildos but often with a more pronounced curve and always with a flared base, anal dildos are perfect for those who enjoy thrusting sensations and deeper penetration.

Anal Vibrators

Adding vibration to anal play can intensify sensations dramatically. These toys come in various shapes similar to non-vibrating options but with motors that provide different vibration patterns and intensities.

Anal Training Kits

Perfect for beginners, these kits typically include multiple plugs of increasing size to help gradually and safely stretch the anal muscles over time.

The anal region is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can provide intense pleasure when stimulated properly. For people with prostates (typically men and some transgender women), anal play can lead to mind-blowing P-spot orgasms. For everyone else, anal stimulation can create unique sensations that complement other forms of sexual pleasure.

“Our butts are full of pleasure points to explore,” as many sex educators note, and with the right approach and tools, anal play can become a satisfying addition to your sexual repertoire.

Selecting the appropriate toy for your experience level is crucial for a safe and enjoyable experience:

For Beginners

If you’re new to anal play, start small and simple:

• Small butt plugs with tapered tips
• Slim anal beads with graduated sizing
• Beginner anal training kits
• Flexible, soft materials like silicone

One reviewer of a beginner kit shared: “Perfect for a first time experimenting with anal insertions. Small enough to not cause discomfort, but long enough to experience something inside.”

For Intermediate Users

Once you’re comfortable with entry-level toys:

• Medium-sized plugs or beads
• Basic vibrating options
• Prostate massagers (for those with prostates)
• More textured designs for enhanced sensation

For Advanced Enthusiasts

For experienced players looking for new challenges:

• Larger sized toys
• More powerful vibrators
• Toys with multiple functions (rotating, thrusting, vibrating)
• Temperature play options like glass or metal plugs

For Men

Men can particularly enjoy:

• Prostate massagers designed to hit the P-spot
• Vibrating plugs that stimulate both the prostate and perineum
• Anal beads for intense sensations during orgasm

For Women

Women might prefer:

• Plugs that provide pressure on the back wall of the vagina
• Double penetration toys that allow for simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation
• Smaller, more comfortable designs for extended wear

As one satisfied customer noted: “My husband and I bought this as our first anal toy. It was perfect. It’s super soft, flexible and the vibration is amazing. I highly recommend this for beginners like us.”

The material of your anal toy significantly impacts both safety and sensation:

Safety should always be your top priority when exploring anal play:

The Flared Base Rule

The most important safety feature of any anal toy is a flared base. Unlike the vagina, the anal canal can actually pull objects further inside the body, potentially requiring medical intervention to remove. A proper flared base prevents the toy from disappearing where it shouldn’t.

Lubrication is Non-Negotiable

The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina. Using plenty of lubricant is absolutely essential for comfortable, safe anal play. A thick, anal-specific lube works best as it stays in place longer.

Cleaning and Sanitizing

Proper cleaning is crucial for anal toys. Depending on the material:

• Non-porous materials (silicone, glass, metal): Can be fully sanitized with soap and water or sex toy cleaner
• Porous materials: Should ideally be covered with condoms between uses

Starting Slow

The anal sphincter muscles need time to relax. Never force a toy in, and always start with smaller sizes before working up to larger ones.

For the most comfortable and enjoyable experience:

1. Clean Up: Consider showering beforehand. Some people use anal douches for deeper cleaning, though this isn’t strictly necessary for most play.

2. Relax: Take deep breaths and consciously relax your muscles. Anxiety will make insertion more difficult.

3. Warm Up: Start with external stimulation around the anal opening before attempting insertion.

4. Use Lube Generously: Apply lube both to the toy and to your anal opening. Reapply as needed.

5. Go Slow: Insert gradually, pausing whenever you feel resistance to let your muscles adjust.

To take your anal play to the next level:

• Combine with Other Stimulation: Many people find anal play most enjoyable when combined with other forms of stimulation, like clitoral, penile, or nipple play.

• Experiment with Temperature: Glass and metal toys can be warmed or cooled for different sensations.

• Try Different Positions: Your comfort and access can vary greatly depending on position. Lying on your side is often easiest for beginners.

• Incorporate into Partnered Play: Anal toys can add exciting dimensions to partnered sex, whether used during foreplay or intercourse.

• Explore Vibration Patterns: If using a vibrating toy, take time to discover which patterns and intensities work best for you.

Is anal play safe?

Yes, when done properly with appropriate toys, plenty of lubrication, and attention to your body’s signals, anal play is completely safe.

Will anal toys stretch me out permanently?

No. The anal sphincter is a muscle that returns to its normal state after play. Regular anal play may make insertion easier over time due to increased comfort and relaxation, but it doesn’t cause permanent stretching.

What lube should I use with anal toys?

The best lube depends on your toy material. For silicone toys, use water-based lube. For glass or metal toys, you can use silicone-based lube, which lasts longer. Avoid numbing lubes, as pain is your body’s warning signal.

Can I use anal toys if I have hemorrhoids?

It’s best to wait until hemorrhoids have healed before engaging in anal play. Consult a healthcare provider if you’re unsure.

How long can I wear a butt plug?

While some plugs are designed for extended wear, most should be limited to a few hours at most. Listen to your body and remove the toy if you experience any discomfort.

If you’re ready to explore anal play, consider these beginner-friendly options:

1. A small, smooth silicone butt plug with a properly flared base
2. Beginner anal beads with graduated sizing
3. An anal training kit that includes multiple sizes to progress through
4. A slim vibrating plug if you want to experiment with vibration

Remember that quality matters when it comes to anal toys. Investing in body-safe materials from EXSHA manufacturers is worth it for both safety and pleasure.