Prostate Massager

I’ve noticed a significant shift in attitudes toward prostate play in recent years. What was once taboo is now being embraced by men of all sexual orientations who are interested in exploring new dimensions of pleasure. And for good reason:

• Enhanced Orgasms: Many men report experiencing more intense, full-body orgasms through prostate stimulation
• Health Benefits: Regular prostate massage may support prostate health
• New Sensations: Prostate play offers unique sensations different from traditional sexual activities
• Relationship Enhancement: Introducing prostate play can add excitement and intimacy to partnered sex

Jordan Taylor, a user of the EXSHA QLX10 Anal Prostate Massager, shared: “This thing is powerful, lots of awesome vibration settings, and really impressive charge time. Size is large enough to really make me feel full, but still easy enough to get used to.”

The world of prostate massagers offers something for everyone. Here’s a breakdown of the main types you’ll encounter:

Textured Prostate Massagers

These toys feature beads, ribs, or other textures along the shaft, providing additional stimulation during insertion and removal. They’re perfect for those who enjoy varied sensations and the feeling of fullness.

Glass Prostate Massagers

Made from body-safe glass, these massagers are firm and weighted, delivering precise and targeted pressure to the P-spot. They’re also great for temperature play—try cooling or warming them before use for extra sensation.

Vibrating Prostate Massagers

These popular options add vibration to prostate stimulation, often with multiple patterns and intensities. Some models, like those from EXSHA, feature extended bases that simultaneously stimulate the perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus).

Remote-Controlled Massagers

Perfect for solo or partner play, these toys can be controlled without having to reach behind, making them ideal for hands-free pleasure or giving control to a partner.

If you’re new to prostate play, choosing your first massager might feel overwhelming. Here’s what I recommend considering:

1. Size: Start small. Beginning with a modestly sized toy allows your body to adjust to the new sensation. EXSHA offers several beginner-friendly options with gentle tapers for easy insertion.

2. Material: Body-safe silicone is ideal for beginners—it’s soft, flexible, and non-porous. Avoid toys made from jelly materials or those containing phthalates.

3. Features: Consider whether you want vibration, which can enhance pleasure but might be overwhelming for some beginners. A simple, non-vibrating massager might be best for your first experience.

4. Budget: Quality matters for anal toys, but you don’t need to break the bank. There are excellent entry-level options between $30-$50.

5. Reviews: Read what others say about comfort, ease of use, and durability. The experiences of other users can provide valuable insights.

Alex Morgan, a beginner, shared their experience with an Intro to Prostate Kit: “I’ve had orgasms I’ve never felt before. I also learned I like rings, another first for me.”

Ready to explore? Here’s my step-by-step guide to using a prostate massager:

Preparation

1. Clean your toy: Wash your prostate massager with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner.

2. Prep your body: Consider showering beforehand. Some users prefer to use an enema for extra cleanliness, though this isn’t strictly necessary.

3. Create a relaxing environment: Dim the lights, play some music, and make sure you won’t be disturbed.

Finding Your P-spot

Before using your toy, it can be helpful to locate your prostate with your fingers:

1. Trim and file your nails to avoid any discomfort.
2. Apply plenty of anal lube to your fingers.
3. Lie back in a comfortable position with your knees bent.
4. Gently insert one lubricated finger about 2-3 inches into your rectum, curving toward your belly button.
5. Feel for a slightly firmer, rounded area—that’s your prostate.

Using Your Massager

1. Apply lube generously: This is non-negotiable for anal play. Use a thick, long-lasting anal lubricant and apply it both to the toy and your anus.

2. Position yourself comfortably: Many find that lying on their back with knees bent or on their side in a fetal position works well.

3. Start slowly: Gently press the tip of the massager against your anus and breathe deeply. As you exhale, gradually insert the toy, allowing your muscles to relax and accept it.

4. Find the right spot: Once inserted, gently adjust the position until you feel pressure against your prostate. You’ll likely know when you hit the right spot—many men experience a distinctive pleasurable sensation.

5. Experiment with movement: Try gentle in-and-out motions, circular movements, or simply applying pressure. If your massager vibrates, start with the lowest setting and increase as desired.

6. Combine with other stimulation: Many men find that combining prostate massage with penile stimulation leads to incredibly intense orgasms.

Ethan Harrison, an EXSHA customer, noted: “I’ve never experienced anything like it. The combination of the vibration against my prostate and the gentle pressure on my perineum sent me over the edge in minutes.”

I always emphasize safety when discussing any form of anal play:

• Always use toys with a flared base to prevent them from getting lost inside the rectum
• Never share toys without thoroughly cleaning them or using a condom
• Listen to your body—if you experience pain (not just pressure), stop immediately
• Clean your toy thoroughly after each use according to the manufacturer’s instructions
• Store your massager in a clean, dry place, preferably in a pouch or container

Once you’re comfortable with basic prostate play, here are some ways to enhance your experience:

1. Experiment with temperature: Some EXSHA massagers offer warming functions that can add a new dimension to your pleasure.

2. Try hands-free techniques: Position your massager and experiment with contracting your pelvic floor muscles to create movement and pressure.

3. Explore edging: Bring yourself close to orgasm through prostate stimulation, then back off. Repeat several times before finally allowing release for an incredibly intense experience.

4. Incorporate into partnered play: Invite a partner to control your massager, either manually or with a remote, adding an element of surrender and surprise.

Jonathan Reed, a satisfied customer of a warming prostate massager, shared: “This is by far my favourite anal toy! The warmth feels great. The thrusting and rotating hits all of the spots!!!”

While many brands offer prostate massagers, EXSHA has built a reputation for quality, innovation, and attention to user experience. Their prostate massagers feature:

• Body-safe, medical-grade silicone
• Powerful, quiet motors
• Ergonomic designs based on actual anatomical research
• Long battery life
• Waterproof construction for use in the shower or bath
• Discreet packaging and shipping

Will using a prostate massager make me gay?

Absolutely not. Sexual pleasure and sexual orientation are completely separate things. The prostate is a pleasure center for all men regardless of sexual orientation.

Is it normal if it takes time to enjoy prostate play?

Yes! Many men need several sessions to become comfortable with the sensations and to learn what works for their bodies. Patience is key.

Can prostate massage cause health issues?

When done correctly with clean, body-safe toys and plenty of lubricant, prostate massage is safe for most men. However, if you have existing prostate issues, hemorrhoids, or other rectal health concerns, consult with a healthcare provider first.

How often can I use a prostate massager?

This varies by individual. Some men enjoy daily prostate play, while others prefer it as an occasional treat. Listen to your body and avoid use if you experience any discomfort or irritation.