Sex Toys for Women

The sex toy industry has exploded in recent years, offering an almost overwhelming array of options designed specifically for women’s pleasure. Gone are the days of one-size-fits-all solutions – today’s market caters to every preference, sensation, and experience level imaginable.

“I remember when buying my first vibrator felt like this huge, secretive deal,” Emily Carter told a friend recently told a friend recently. “Now I research my toys with the same enthusiasm I bring to finding the perfect pair of jeans – it’s about what fits me and my needs best.”

This shift reflects a broader cultural change: women’s sexual pleasure is increasingly recognized as an important aspect of overall well-being. With this evolution comes more innovative designs, body-safe materials, and thoughtful features that enhance the experience of self-pleasure.

With thousands of options available, understanding the basic categories can help narrow down your search. Here’s a breakdown of the most popular types of women’s sex toys:

Vibrators: The Versatile Favorites

Vibrators remain the most popular category of sex toys, and for good reason – they offer incredible versatility and reliable pleasure. Within this category, you’ll find several distinct types:

Bullet Vibrators: These small, portable powerhouses are perfect for beginners. They deliver pinpoint clitoral stimulation and are typically the most affordable entry point into the world of vibrators.

Wand Vibrators: Originally marketed as “massagers,” wands feature a long handle and a rounded head that delivers powerful, rumbly vibrations. They’re excellent for external stimulation and can help those who need stronger sensations to reach orgasm.

Rabbit Vibrators: These dual-action toys simultaneously stimulate the clitoris and G-spot, offering the potential for blended orgasms. They typically feature an insertable shaft and a separate arm with a smaller vibrator for external stimulation.

G-Spot Vibrators: Curved to target the sensitive G-spot area on the front wall of the vagina, these vibrators often feature a bulbous or angled tip for precision stimulation.

Clitoral Stimulators: This newer category includes suction toys that use air pressure technology to create a sensation similar to oral sex, offering a completely different experience from traditional vibration.

Dildos: The Classics

Dildos are non-vibrating insertable toys that come in countless shapes, sizes, and materials. Some are realistic, mimicking the look and feel of a penis, while others feature abstract designs focused purely on function. They can be used for vaginal or anal penetration (as long as they have a flared base for anal play).

Anal Toys: Exploring New Sensations

From beginner-friendly anal beads to plugs of various sizes, anal toys are designed with safety in mind (always featuring a flared base) and can introduce entirely new dimensions of pleasure.

Finding your perfect match requires some self-reflection about your preferences and needs. Here are some key questions to consider:

1. What Kind of Stimulation Do You Enjoy?

Think about what typically brings you to orgasm. Do you prefer:

• External clitoral stimulation
• Internal vaginal stimulation
• G-spot targeting
• Dual stimulation
• Anal play
• A combination of the above

Your answer will help narrow down which category of toy might work best for you.

2. What Material Preferences Do You Have?

Sex toy materials vary widely, each offering different sensations:

• Silicone: Body-safe, soft, and flexible; the gold standard for quality toys
• ABS Plastic: Firm, smooth, and excellent for transferring vibrations
• Glass: Firm, temperature-responsive, and easy to clean
• Metal: Heavy, firm, and excellent for temperature play
• TPE/TPR: Softer and more porous; requires careful cleaning

3. What’s Your Experience Level?

If you’re new to sex toys, starting with something simple and versatile is often best. A bullet vibrator or small clitoral stimulator provides an accessible entry point. As you become more familiar with your preferences, you can explore more specialized options.

4. What’s Your Budget?

Sex toys range from under $20 to several hundred dollars. While price often correlates with quality, durability, and features, there are excellent options at every price point. Consider your purchase an investment in your pleasure and well-being.

Nothing speaks to a toy’s effectiveness like genuine user experiences. Here are some insights from real EXSHA customers:

“I was skeptical about spending so much on the clitoral suction vibrator, but it’s completely changed my relationship with my body. It gives me orgasms in under two minutes when I’m in a hurry, or I can edge with it for the most intense climaxes I’ve ever experienced.”

Amanda Brooks / EXSHA

“As someone who struggled to reach orgasm through penetration alone, the rabbit vibrator was a game-changer. The dual stimulation helped me experience my first blended orgasm, and I’ve never looked back!”

Megan Davis / EXSHA

“I bought kegel balls after having my second child, mainly for the health benefits. What I didn’t expect was how they would enhance sensation during sex. My partner definitely noticed the difference too!”

Lauren King / EXSHA

If you’re new to sex toys, these tips can help make your first experience more enjoyable:

1. Start slow: Take time to explore your new toy before using it for sexual pleasure. Get familiar with the controls, settings, and how it feels against different parts of your body.

2. Use lubricant: A good water-based lubricant enhances comfort and sensation with most toys. (Note: silicone-based lubes can damage silicone toys.)

3. Create a relaxing environment: Set the mood with dim lighting, comfortable bedding, and privacy to reduce any anxiety.

4. Experiment: Don’t feel pressured to use the toy in any specific way. Explore different positions, settings, and techniques to discover what feels best for you.

5. Be patient: It might take a few sessions to figure out exactly how you and your toy work best together.

Proper care extends the life of your toys and ensures they remain body-safe:

Cleaning

Always clean your toys before and after use. The appropriate cleaning method depends on the material and whether the toy is waterproof:

• Non-porous materials (silicone, glass, metal, ABS plastic): Wash with mild soap and warm water or use a specialized toy cleaner.
• Porous materials (TPE, TPR): Clean thoroughly with soap and water, recognizing that these materials may harbor bacteria over time.
• Electronic toys: Follow manufacturer instructions, generally wiping with a damp cloth and toy cleaner rather than submerging.

Storage

Store toys in cool, dry places away from direct sunlight. Many quality toys come with storage pouches, which help keep them clean and prevent material degradation.

Battery Care

For rechargeable toys, regular charging (even when not in use) helps maintain battery life. For battery-operated toys, remove batteries during extended periods of non-use to prevent corrosion.

Sex toys aren’t just about pleasure – they’re increasingly recognized as wellness tools that contribute to physical and mental health:

• Stress relief: Orgasms release endorphins and oxytocin, which reduce stress and promote relaxation.
• Sleep improvement: Many people report better sleep after sexual release.
• Pain management: Sexual pleasure can temporarily alleviate menstrual cramps and other types of pain.
• Sexual self-knowledge: Toys help women explore and understand their bodies, leading to better communication with partners.
• Pelvic floor health: Regular orgasms and specific toys like kegel exercisers strengthen pelvic floor muscles.

“I started using sex toys as part of my self-care routine,” Jessica Miller shared with a close friend. “It’s not just about the physical release – it’s taking time to connect with my body and prioritize my pleasure, which feels revolutionary in itself.”

If discretion is a priority, many manufacturers now offer toys specifically designed to be unobtrusive:

• Lipstick vibrators: Small vibrators disguised as cosmetics
• Jewelry vibrators: Wearable pleasure products that double as attractive accessories
• App-controlled toys: Discreet designs that can be controlled via smartphone
• Whisper-quiet motors: Technology has advanced to create powerful vibrations with minimal noise

EXSHA offers several discreet options that provide powerful stimulation without drawing attention, perfect for those with roommates or thin walls.

Sex toys aren’t just for solo play – they can enhance intimacy and exploration with partners:

• Communication is key: Discuss incorporating toys before bringing them into the bedroom
• Start simple: A small vibrator used during foreplay can be a gentle introduction
• Share control: Remote-controlled toys allow partners to participate in each other’s pleasure
• Focus on enhancement: Frame toys as enhancing your connection, not replacing any aspect of it

“Adding toys to our relationship wasn’t about fixing anything that was broken,” Sophia Turner, 33, shared. “It was about exploring new dimensions of pleasure together and showing each other that we’re open to growth and experimentation.”

With so many options available, finding the right toy can feel overwhelming. EXSHA offers a curated selection of women’s sex toys designed to meet diverse needs and preferences. Here’s a simplified approach to narrowing down your options:

1. Identify your primary pleasure goal: Clitoral stimulation? G-spot exploration? Pelvic floor strengthening?

2. Consider practical factors: Your budget, noise concerns, and storage needs all matter.

3. Read reviews: Other users’ experiences can provide valuable insights, especially regarding a toy’s power, noise level, and durability.

4. Start with versatility: If you’re new to toys, choose something with multiple settings that can be used in different ways.

5. Trust your instincts: Sometimes a toy just calls to you – that intuition is often worth following.